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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 18.06.2025 01:13

How does one succeed in life?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Hangs out with loser friends.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Making more friends is a goal.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Does not procrastinate.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Ask yourself:

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

What I need from you?

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Procrastinates a lot.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Why did my ex move on so fast, we have only been broken up for 2 weeks?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

That's it for today.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?